Remembering Paul Goodman’s declaration that the state should not be in the business of licensing sex (i.e., “marriage/l), let me suggest that it also shouldn’t be in the business of unlicensed sex, which is to say divorce, where the state can function far more dangerously.
Marriage should strictly be a religious vow or a business deal done, as well as undone, by holy people or professional negotiators.
Need I add that we should also abolish all those stupid laws that become false incentives to marriage, beginning with tax advantages and visitation rights in a hospital?